Would You Put a Tracking Device On Your Child? 610
Hugh Pickens writes "In 2007 businessman Russell Thornton lost his 3-year-old son at an amusement park. After a frantic 45-minute search, Thornton found the boy hiding in a play structure, but he was traumatized by the incident. It spurred him to build a device that would help other parents avoid that fate. Even though most statistics show that rates of violent crime against children have declined significantly over the last few decades, and that abductions are extremely rare, KJ Dell'Antonia writes that with the array of new gadgetry like Amber Alert and the Securus eZoom our children need never experience the fears that come with momentary separations, or the satisfaction of weathering them. 'You could argue that those of us who survived our childhoods of being occasionally lost, then found, are in the position of those who think car seats are overkill because they suffered no injury while bouncing around in the back of their uncle's pickup,' writes Dell'Antonia. 'Wouldn't a more powerful sense of security come from knowing your children were capable, and trusting in their ability to reach out for help at the moment when they realize they're not?'"
South Park did it first! (Score:2, Insightful)
Phhhh...Knock-offs.
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I'd want one for when the kid becomes a teenager.
What are parents so paranoid? (Score:5, Interesting)
I was actually talking to my Mom the other day...laughing about when I was about 2-3yrs..I wandered off from her, and got lost in the dept store...and they had to call over the intercom for her to get me.
She said I never would wander off after that, and if I acted bad, she would tell me she was leaving..and I'd cry and promise to act right..etc.
But, not long after that, I'd guess when I was about 1st grade...when we'd go to the mall, she'd leave me in the toy section or the book section and I'd be happy there till she was done. A couple years later, she'd let me wander the mall to look at the book stores, etc......
I can't believe things are that much more dangerous now, are there? I often wonder, instead of more 'craziees' out there...if it is just more sensationally reported due to needing to fill up 24/7 news?
Re:What are parents so paranoid? (Score:5, Informative)
Actually violence against children has been going down for a long time now. But the 24-hour news cycle has made abductions and other horrors seem like a common thing. You're a helluva lot safer as a kid alone in the mall today that you were 20-40 years ago.
Re:What are parents so paranoid? (Score:5, Informative)
Re:What are parents so paranoid? (Score:4, Insightful)
But still overall safety? I can't think it is any worse.
Yet, you rarely seem to see neighborhoods of kids, playing outside during the summer, skateboarding, kill the man with the ball in someones front yard...etc.
When I was a kid, especially in summer, I left the house early...and maybe came home for lunch (or ate at a friends house, we moved around who ate with where, everyone's mom and dad was everyone's mom and dad)...and didn't generally come home till dinner, and after dinner would run around till dark.
I heard the other day, about a lady who's kids were riding scooters in a neighborhood cul-de-sac, in front of their house, with fucking HELMETS on...the Mom got arrested because she was reported by neighbors (who had an ax to grind) that she had them out there unsupervised.
I mean..really? Not only was she actually there watching them....and got arrested even after explaining that...
Lord, is that the way it is today?
I guess my folks would have been picked up LONG ago by the law and me with child services for all I did unsupervised most days....sheesh.
When, exactly, did it become against the law for kids to be kids, and parents able (and willing) to let them?
No wonder all these little fuckwits seem so lost and dependent when you see them out finally on their own...(not everyone, but man, more than you saw in my day).
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Strange, in Alaska, do you need a license to ride a bicycle (or say an electric bicycle or a motorized bicycle). In Oregon, they are all legal within certain limits. In my city (Portland, OR), even Stakeboarding on the roads is legal (they dont have reflectors, lights, turn lights either), so I dont why scooters should be any different.
Re:What are parents so paranoid? (Score:5, Funny)
Actually violence against children has been going down for a long time now. But the 24-hour news cycle has made abductions and other horrors seem like a common thing. You're a helluva lot safer as a kid alone in the mall today that you were 20-40 years ago.
Now then now then now then, kids in those days listened to showaddywaddy and have Jim fix it for them.
Re:What are parents so paranoid? (Score:5, Informative)
No, things are not more dangerous. Today, kids are statistically safer than they were in the 60's.. But, we now have 24-hour news that needs to fill time... Lookup the book "Free Range Kids".. You are 20 times more likely to kill your own child while driving, than to have a stranger take off with them. Yet parents still, every day, pile little junior into the SUV to drive 1 mile to school.. (placing a child in a car is the single worst thing you can ever do for their safety, apparently)
The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children flat out says "stranger danger" is wrong, and very dangerous to teach kids: http://us.missingkids.com/missingkids/servlet/NewsEventServlet?LanguageCountry=en_US&PageId=2034 [missingkids.com]
Re:What are parents so paranoid? (Score:5, Informative)
THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!
If I had mod points I'd mod you up...
Here's how it breaks down (courtesy of National Center for Missing and Exploited Children)
About 800,000 kids go missing each year.
The vast majority of those are either family abductions (200,000/year), younger girls running off with older and bolder men, younger boys running off with older and bolder women, disgruntled teenagers who hitch a bus to Seattle to start a band and get real big, or whatever disgruntled teenagers do these days.
Number of honest-to-god stranger abductions? 115 last year. In a country of 300 million people.
I'm not quite sure, but I think your chances of running into an honest-to-God flying saucer are better than that.
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About 800,000 kids go missing each year.
The majority of those are runaways or "lost" children that are reported missing when they didn't think they were (went to a friend's for the weekend and Mom forgot or wasn't told). Then are spousal complaints that involve the children. I'd guess more than half spousal abductions are when a parent has proper custody and is mis-reported as not having custody (i.e. "it's not his week" or 'I didn't give permission for that out of state trip" and reporting it to use against them later in the custody hearings)
Re:What are parents so paranoid? (Score:5, Interesting)
I've been doing much the same with my son, who's now 13. From when he was three or so, we'd play 'if you were lost, what would you do' games in stores and shopping streets (in a shop, ask somebody at the till for help; in the street, go into a store); and I had him learn my mobile phone number; and we'd happily leave him to read books and magazines while we did our shopping. He timed out a few times and asked a shop assistant to call us on the intercom and we'd reassure him he'd done the right thing. The aim was to get him thinking 'oh bother, I'm lost /again/'.
When he was eight he moved to Denmark with his mum and they'd get a train each day - but his school was at an earlier stop than her office so he'd get off and walk the last half-mile or so on his own. A few weeks after he arrived there (and speaking no Danish), he got an earlier train back and she wasn't on it. So he got off at the right stop, went to a tourist bureau where he'd been before, and had them phone me in England on my mobile number. He was eight, and on his own in a foreign city - but not, technically, lost. Since then I've not really been too bothered about his finding his way about.
He's now back in England and quite happy to take trains and buses on his own which, of course, is how it should be.
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crime isn't any different now, except for 2 things. We have the internet, which makes new crime, but also delivers news, fears, lies, and everything else instantly.
So while it seems like crime may be up, it's only seems like that because because now we can get the news from everywhere, instead of just local and national.
The perverts you need to watch out from, are probably in your family or friends. It's already someone close to you and your child, not a stranger.
Re:What are parents so paranoid? (Score:4, Insightful)
Geez....
I was actually talking to my Mom the other day...laughing about when I was about 2-3yrs..I wandered off from her, and got lost in the dept store...and they had to call over the intercom for her to get me.
We "misplaced" one of our kids at a shopping centre when she was about that age. I thought she was with my wife, my wife thought she was with me. It was absolutely horrifying. Security fairly quickly had someone watching near each of the exits etc, but I found her very shortly after happily sitting in a little car ride (the type you put 20c in and it wobbles from side to side a bit) that she'd spotted on the way in.
While it was about the worst i've ever felt about anything (my heart still races when I think about it!), my fear and anxiety was completely irrational, and i'm not going to stick a tracking device on one of my kids just because i've got a vivid imagination about the horrible things that might happen. There's a much higher chance of something bad happening on the drive to and from the shop than in the shop, so clearly spending massive amounts of effort mitigating the latter risk is well and truly misplaced.
I can't believe things are that much more dangerous now, are there? I often wonder, instead of more 'craziees' out there...if it is just more sensationally reported due to needing to fill up 24/7 news?
I'm pretty sure it's the latter. I can't remember the last time a child was actually abducted in Australia... i'm sure it's happened once or twice fairly recently, but there have been way more kids killed in traffic accidents in the same time. The abductions, when they do happen, get far more widely reported though, we even hear about it when it happens in other countries. The one in the US where the child turned up dead in a recycling bin even made the news here.
Re:What are parents so paranoid? (Score:5, Funny)
Re:South Park did it first! (Score:4, Insightful)
It's called an iPhone. Your kid will carry it willingly, no stress, no questions asked.
Re:South Park did it first! (Score:5, Insightful)
I have tracking devices on my children.
The device is made by Apple.
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hehe... I have one on my wife, time to time she wonders how i show up in malls where she is shopping.
More to the current, topic, I think this question needs to be asked from parents, slashdot crowd, al though teksavvy is, IMO the wrong crows. My views on parenthood changed after having my own. Instead of being pissed at parents with cranky kids in flights, I now sympathise with them.
As a parent, I wouldn't mind having one on my kids. I don't know the statistics, but its like thunderstorm, you wouldn't send
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Re:South Park did it first! (Score:4, Funny)
I have tracking devices on my children.
The device is made by Apple.
Your iPad is not your child.
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Ripley did it before South Park -- she found Newt in the alien nest because of the tracking device. That was what, 1986?
A device that helps find lost kids (Score:5, Insightful)
You mean like, I don't know, a phone?
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Re:A device that helps find lost kids (Score:5, Insightful)
It would be essentially a phone, only with no ability to place calls—just data+GPS.
I don't really see why this is remotely controversial. The point at which the kid starts to think about disabling it is the same point at which the kid is probably capable of making rational decisions. A three-year-old is not yet capable of doing that, and having a device like this would be a major anxiety-reducer for parents. It's not likely to make the kid hugely safer, but who cares?
Re:A device that helps find lost kids (Score:4, Insightful)
The problem on the other hand is the lack of weaning off parents' "tether", which is often sited by modern psychiatrists as damaging to both kids' and parents' psyche. Both parties basically never learn how to function without the tether. It becomes natural.
End result is the modern helicopter parenting, where both child and parents learn their roles on sides of the tether so well that parents show up for job interviews with their kid... when he's 20+. Yes, it started to happen lately. No too surprisingly kid rarely gets the job. Then, if that kid gets lucky, he'll get a spouse who can become his/her helicopter parent and push real parents out of his/her life.
Seriously, helicopter parenting is a growing problem, and it affects both child and parents. It's the other side of the total neglect coin, and it tends to be almost as damaging.
Re:A device that helps find lost kids (Score:4, Informative)
Spoken well and truly like somebody who has no kids. So is your two year old going to speed dial you, or have they got your number memorized? You sure they won't drop the phone in a duck pond? Try to eat it?
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When she was 4 she learned (almost by herself) how to use a celphone.
If only my 84 year old grandmother could do the same.
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My three year old knows how to use a standard mobile phone (both touch screen and old-fashioned push button) to call me, his mom, or his sister (who is 17) if for some reason he needed to do so. A fixhttp://tech.slashdot.org/story/12/10/24/1832248/would-you-put-a-tracking-device-on-your-child#ed 3 button phone would certainly be easy for him to understand and operate.
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As for losing it, that is the primary reason that I have tracking on all of my families phones. Every one of us has used the feature.
Re:A device that helps find lost kids (Score:5, Insightful)
My friend's 2 year old can pick up his BlackBerry Playbook, turn it on, find the application she wants, launch it, and play with it. No issues whatsoever.
She doesn't yet understand the concept of a phone call I don't think, but I should think at this rate she'll have a pretty good grasp of that before long.
I mostly just stand there shaking my head that she can navigate it so easy, since when we were kids we had absolutely nothing of the sort. Kids are just exposed to this a lot earlier now. Hell, I was a whole lot older than she when we got Pong for crying out loud.
I'm pretty sure the average 2-4 year old can do stuff that 10 years ago I couldn't have even explained the concept to my mother, let alone how to use it.
Re:A device that helps find lost kids (Score:5, Funny)
That's why you imbed the device into his skin, cover it up with a cheezy tatoo and call it a day. Yeah my toddler has an anchor tattoo, big whoop.
Just buy them an iPhone with a strap (Score:2)
Just buy them an iPhone, with Locate on, long distance off, and Find My Phone on.
And a case with a strap that connects it to their belt.
Problem solved.
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until they turn location services off....
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until they turn location services off....
The police can override that.
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Re:Just buy them an iPhone with a strap (Score:5, Insightful)
It's really simple. I expect my kid will actually want a phone. Leaving location services on is a condition of getting to keep the phone. If I ever check on him and find it is disabled, or is reporting him to be somewhere he is not, then he loses the phone.
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At which point you lose your parental advantages. That's quite the paradox...
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Re:Just buy them an iPhone with a strap (Score:4, Insightful)
I think you underestimate the number of parents who see that as a win-win situation.
Re:Just buy them an iPhone with a strap (Score:5, Funny)
Leaving location services on is a condition of getting to keep the phone.
Makes all kinds of logical sense until:
*) Sorry Dad, I forgot it in (locker, backpack, Jim's Mom's car)
*) Sorry Dad, I didn't have time to charge the battery this morning
*) Sorry Dad, the battery died right after school
*) Sorry Dad, Mary borrowed it to call her mom and she left with it
*) Sorry Dad, the teacher made us turn them off. I forgot to turn it on.
*) Sorry Dad, we're on Sprint, remember? I only have one bar unless I'm under the tower in Tokyo.
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Wasn't this intended for young children (around 3 years). By the time they want to turn off the location services, those are not really needed any more (or they can turn them back on if they get lost).
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Giving an iPhone to a three year old... how well do iPhones bounce?
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Just buy them an iPhone, with Locate on, long distance off, and Find My Phone on.
And a case with a strap that connects it to their belt.
Problem solved.
iPhone is crap.
Why not buy a fucking cheap ass phone that has GPS? You don't need to spend $300 on a fucking smart phone, when you can spend $50 on a cheap phone with GPS.
Fucking apple fans. To fucking enamored by Apple to actually think.
Re:Just buy them an iPhone with a strap (Score:4, Interesting)
My 2yo got an iPod touch ($300) and still has it 2.5 years later as his most prized possession. We have never had to tell him to keep track of it, he loves it that much. It's not for every kid though.
I have one on him (Score:2, Interesting)
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Right, and because they know about it - they can give their phone to a schoolmate who plans on going to school, while they head off to the local crack den.
Re:I have one on him (Score:5, Insightful)
Right, and because they know about it - they can give their phone to a schoolmate who plans on going to school, while they head off to the local crack den.
You aren't describing a problem that technology can fix.
Re:I have one on him (Score:5, Insightful)
Right, and because they know about it - they can give their phone to a schoolmate who plans on going to school, while they head off to the local crack den.
You aren't describing a problem that technology can fix.
Exactly. But this is a problem that proper parenting can fix. My daughter is 13. I can track her phone. I also know her bank password and can see the transactions on her debit card. Nearly every weekend she goes to her BFF's house to "study", but the two of them really go hang out at the mall (according to both the phone and the bank transactions).
Here is what I have done about the situation: nothing. Lying and deceiving your parents is a normal part of growing up, and the point of spying on your kids is not to prevent them from being normal, but to protect them from real dangers. If you use your spying to keep your kid from occasionally skipping a class, then you will not be able to protect them from the crack dealers.
Trust you kids. Let them do stupid stuff, make mistakes, and grow up. Only intervene when they make the big mistakes.
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Please adopt me.
Now seriously, you are absolutely right. On a more general note, I have seen mankind getting closer to being control freaks and overprotective and while it has its advantages, this sort of behavior exhibits the danger to turn kids into limited creatures who never learn by occasionally getting hurt (literally).
It's hilarious to see kids riding their bikes at 2 mph, wearing HUGE helmets and knee+elbow caps. They look like they're going to some sort of children-friendly armored warfare. Of cour
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always with the children (Score:4, Insightful)
everything controversial can be made acceptable by saying it will protect the children. Well you know what? fuck the children, we dont need any more of them, and who cares if we lose a couple a year? thins out the population.
Re:always with the children (Score:4, Funny)
But if people don't put tracking chips in their kids, they will have to ask them watch over them or heaven forbid: ask them questions!
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fuck the children
Well don't do that, that's sick! But you're right that many people will exploit parents' fears to sell them useless stuff or get their votes.
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Doctor Malthus, how did you get on Slashdot?
Yeah. (Score:2)
Yeah, and I call it a "mobile phone".
Who, exactly, was traumatized? (Score:2, Insightful)
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It is structured properly. Russell was the one traumatized. He probably never wanted his child to get out of his sight after the incident, and developed a device so that he can get on with his life, while still keeping an eye on the child.
No I would not. (Score:5, Insightful)
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Same here. Wouldn't put one on my daughter. On my part it's a lesson in trust, on her part one in responsability. Seriously, when should they learn to be responsible, if not with small steps in child age?
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We could even have a countdown timer, like in Logan's Run. It would really help with the population problem.
Re:No I would not. (Score:4, Insightful)
The risk isn't worth the lost of privacy. If we teach our kids it's ok to be tracked anytime and always, it won't be long until all the kids wear government mandated trackingdevices. Which they get to keep to wear when they grown into adults. So no. It's not worth it, the risk is so small, don't do it. Keep an eye on your kids, make sure your kids know when to kick, bite and scream, but don't go tracking them with hardware. It's stupid.
A 3-year-old toddler doesn't have an expectation of privacy. It's not even desirable at that age.
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They may not have an expectation of privacy now; however if you are tracking them now and teach them it's a normal thing to do, then in later life they will still consider it a normal thing that they are tracked. After all the tracking has been going on for as long as they can remember, and it's simply part of life.
Re:No I would not. (Score:4, Informative)
I can see your point, but I don't think this is a slippery slope issue.
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None of those examples were choices made by parents. They were all examples of government surveillance. Very different scenarios.
Yea, that was the point - Parents teach their kids that it's OK to be tracked 24/7/365; kids grow up thinking that's perfectly normal and OK; government surveillance becomes more ubiquitous than it already is.
i.e., a slippery slope.
Some separation is good (Score:5, Interesting)
Kids need to learn how to function without relying on parents, and if you do things right it will help dramatically when your kid is now 18 and headed to some faraway place for college. While 3 is probably a bit too young, by about 8 or 9 the child should be able to go places on their own. And a kid who is never ever lost when he's between 3 and 6 years old is a kid that is probably being watched too closely.
The secret is to do so in stages. For example, my folks wanted me to get used to traveling without their help: At 3, they were still taking me most everywhere. At 6, I was now responsible for walking to school with an older neighbor's kid. By the next year, I didn't have to stick with the neighbor's kid anymore. In theory, something really bad could have happened to me, but the only real challenge came from traffic, not crime.
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This is good insight.
If your child is coddled throughout life they will be unprepared for the variety of challenges life throws. In my opinion, as a parent, your job is to provide a safety net while allowing your kid room to learn on their own. They need to be taught self reliance and understand consquences for actions which hopefully will help them make better decisions later in life.
If your kid is 3 years old though you just need to keep track of them :P
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our children need never experience the fears that come with momentary separations,
Let me be clear about this. Children NEED to experience the fears that come with momentary separations. It'll happen eventually. It's better if he is not 18 and driving a car to college when it happens. But yeah, do it in stages.
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And guess what? all of them failed, and some of those might actually have been misreported incidents. So yes, I can tell you that the facts show that the danger is low.
but even if not a thing has changed
Actually they are substantially down steadily over the last hundred years.
it would be foolish not to at least consider the "fact" that these abductions and even attempted abductions do happen,
Right, the same way you consider the fact that people have been hit by meteorites every time you go out and that such
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Number of children abducted by strangers: 115 annually in the entire United States. Now, that's not 0, but it's so close to 0 to be totally insignificant for any practical purpose. In roughly 999 out of 1000 cases, attempts by strangers are unsuccessful because the kid is smart enough to get away and/or other adults intervene. And as a sibling poster points out, this has been declining steadily for years.
Statistically speaking, the most likely way your child might die before they turn 14 is a car accident w
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Heck, I'm pretty sure somebody attempted to abduct me when I was about 6. And I wasn't in any serious danger, because I was walking down busy streets in broad daylight until I got to where I was going, where responsible adults told the would-be abductor to get lost immediately or they'd call the police.
That's why 999 out of 1000 attempted abductions fail: Kids taught the basics of how to protect themselves usually manage to do so. For example, if some stranger grabbed your son on the playground, chances are
I can see this being useful... (Score:2)
For that 2 to 6 demographic where a child is able to go somewhere, but may not have the forethought of sophistication to get back (of course depending on the child... I knew a 3 year old who could read, name all the states, presidents, vice presidents, and current governors, and use the phone and locate herself on a google map... what are they feeding kids these days?)
You could always give the kid a device they can turn on that transmits images and sound and sends a locating beacon. That and perhaps a shape
Tagg (Score:4, Interesting)
I don't know if I'd put a tracker on my child. Maybe. but I do have a Tagg [tagg.com] tracker on my dog.
I get a text alert anytime she leaves the "home zone" (which ranges to about 1/2 block from my house). The dog hasn't escaped from the yard since I started using it, but it's good peace of mind just in case she does - I can track her down easily and even if I'm at work, I'll know immediately if she gets out.
There are definitely privacy concerns, for example, anyone that looks at our Tagg activity will know when we're on vacation and where we are, and can pretty easily guess what time we go to work and what time we come home.
The Tagg device itself works very well - it's about the size of an adult's watch and is small enough to snap on the dog's collar. The battery lasts for about 2 weeks because the home docking station emits an RF signal that tells the device when it's in the home zone, so it doesn't waste battery power trying to get a GPS lock or talk to the cell phone network while the dog is at home. Even when the dog leaves the home zone, it doesn't use the GPS unless you explicitly request that the device be tracked through the website or smartphone app. When you request tracking, within a few minutes the device reports its GPS location every few minutes. If the device becomes detached from the dog's collar, it will notify you and report its location. It uses Verizon's cell phone network, so only works within cell phone range.
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Your child is still a person. Even if they are 3 or 14... they are still a person. They aren't possessions or an animal of a different species.
For that reason any tech like this makes me nervous. When you say "this is how a control my dog" I see a bit of red.
Right, my child is more important to me than my dog. So if I'm worried about not knowing where my dog is, I'm much more worried about not knowing where my child is. I'm not worried about her privacy when it comes to me knowing where she is - aside from my instincts to want to protect her, I'm legally responsible for her safety. I am more worried about who else might be able to track whatever device she's carrying.
When I was a kid, most of the families in our neighborhood had stay-at-home moms, and whene
Objectionable (Score:2)
As long as the [amusement park | store | etc ] is legally required to remove it before you leave their premises, I would consider it.
I also would NOT want it to be easily removable for obvious reasons.
Side note: Heck, we already have leashes for our children...... :)
Might make sense here (Score:2)
It might make sense here. But for every member of your party. An amusement park is a crowded area with lots of distractions. Beeing seperated from the rest of your party is always possible. Countermeasures should be taken. Starts from pre-arranged meeting points ("if someone gets lost we meet at the spinebreaker-ride-souvenir-shop at the next full hour") and does not end with making sure everyone has his cellphone handy.
my 2 cents (Score:5, Interesting)
Far more important lesson. (Score:2)
Sadly our children should get used to being followed by authorities (older brother or sister, parents, neighbours, police, homeland security or government) 24/7 as early as possible.
Or not. (Score:4, Insightful)
Or you could, you know, be a better parent and keep closer tabs on your little precious bundle of joy. Or just not have them if you can't handle the responsibility.
But I'm sure I'll be modded into oblivion by said parents.
Shock Collars (Score:3)
What they really need is shock collars. See, you take the collar and you put it on the parent's neck. If the child strays too far away it activates.
Personally (Score:4, Insightful)
I would have no issue whatsoever with putting a tracker on my child. For anyone under the age of 18, the parent is ultimately liable for their actions. If my kid gets in a car crash and it is their fault, I have to pay for it. If they break a store window for fun, I have to pay for it.
However, such a tool should not be a "why is my kid 5 minutes late?" type of tool. I would only use it in emergencies. For example, curfew is 11 pm and by 7am the next morning, they are still not home. Or my child walks home from school and usually gets home about 3pm, I call them multiple times and the school does not know where they are, I would use such a device. Also, I would love a feature that let me know when they left a certain radius or approached a certain area. Certain areas being the known criminal enterprise areas.
There is a difference between being "big brother" and using technology to enhance your parenting.
A bit of a stretch. (Score:5, Informative)
'Wouldn't a more powerful sense of security come from knowing your children were capable, and trusting in their ability to reach out for help at the moment when they realize they're not?'"
Sure, when they're 16 years old. Throw a four-year-old out in the middle of a large crowd of unfamiliar people and rational thought is the last thing you can expect. That's why it takes a rational adult to calm them down and ask "Are you lost?"
I wish I could be that parent that never loses their child, but I'm a realist and accept that it can happen, so these tracking devices sound appealing to me for use on very young children who are as of yet incapable of rational, level-headed responses to scary situations like getting lost in a shopping mall.
I wouldn't stick it on my 16-year-old's pants when he or she starts driving. That's a different situation involving a (hopefully) much more mature and logical person. Not to mention I probably don't want to know where those pants are at certain moments. ("GPS Location Update: on the floor at boyfriend's house")
Low tech solution (Score:4, Insightful)
Don't get me wrong - when he's older, I will not be a helicopter parent. But a three year old is just a baby that can run. Fast. And if he's anything like I was as a kid, I'm in for big trouble.
Re:Low tech solution (Score:4, Interesting)
If your three year old can outrun you, you're already in big trouble.
You haven't spent time around many toddlers, I take it?
With 3 year olds, it's not how fast they run, but their magical ability to disa-fucking-ppear the second you take your eyes off them.
Seriously. Anyone who has spent time around toddlers can attest to this.
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Or by chance ended up looking after a kid who is just calm / tame. My youngest daughter is a lot calmer than my oldest.
And the kids of friends of ours were a lot calmer as well. When I told them that they had a small hole in the fence where a toddler could crawl through, their reaction was 'that's ok, our boy doesn't go crawling through holes'. I know they are correct because their kids are like tamed animals. My daughter spent all of 5 minutes in that garden, and then stood on the other side of the fence.
I have. (Score:5, Interesting)
Back in the olden days, when my kid was very small and most phones didn't have GPS, she carried one of those mountaineer walkie-talkies with GPS when we were on vacation. She had fun playing with it and it helped guarantee that we could find her when she got lost in a crowd. Later when she got better at identifying her position, she carried a smaller walkie-talkie strapped to her wrist. (The first day she wore it, she wandered off during a parade and got separated from us. She called and said she was by "the big lemon" -- a lemonaid cart a few blocks away.)
Later, she carried a smartphone with GPS turned on. I periodically looked her up in Latitude, called her when her position was not where I expected. I did this because she traveled a lot between 12 and 18, to tutors, night classes, and various school functions.
Now she's 18, has her own car, and the GPS in her Bionic is routinely turned off, because, apparently, it's no longer my business to know where she is. I have learned to accept this. She will turn on the GPS if she gets lost or has an equipment failure, and I can then pinpoint her position and send help or go myself.
Regarding having the satisfaction of getting un-lost yourself, there is truth to that. At six or seven, she was quite proud of the fact that she was able to identify her position (the big lemon) well enough for us to reconnect with her. (That may not be the best example.) She liked knowing where *I* was (I keep gps on all the time) through Latitude, and enjoyed using this knowledge to find me. More recently, she called me, said she was lost trying to drive to a friend's house, was very frustrated, and wanted me to go get her. As it was 11:00 PM on a work night, I was reluctant to do this, as she had gas and wasn't in danger. She figured it out on her own and was quite proud of herself afterwards. (The solution, by the way, was quite clever: The problem was a hiccup in Google Maps, which steered her to the wrong place when she entered a certain address. She tried an address close to her goal, and that worked well enough to find her goal.)
So yeah, I recognized very early on that my daughter doesn't have the instinct to cling to a parent, and as a result, we were early adopters of technological solutions, upgrading as new solutions became available. These days it's hard to find a phone that *doesn't* have GPS. Parenthetically, I'm all for giving a kid a cell phone (one of the cheap ones) at an early age. For her to be able to contact me in emergencies trumps other considerations.
No thanks... (Score:4, Interesting)
No thanks. I think I'll stick with teaching my kids to find a specific location we both know and stay there until I find them. Or, better yet, teach them not to wander off. Better still I'll not ignore my kids while we're in a busy public place where they can easily wander off in the first place.
I know, it only takes a second, and I've "lost" a kid (not my own) for the longest 5 minutes of my life, but it's still better than using technology to track everything. There's already enough invasion of my and my children's "privacy" as it is.
Micro-chipped untill age 18.. (Score:3)
Nothing new here. (Score:5, Interesting)
I used to work for the company (Zoombak) Securus acquired. During testing of our device (originally, designed for medium/large dogs), I had my son (who has ADHD) wear our device while on a Scout trip to the middle of a large National park. The device communicated via SMS over T-Mobile's network. It worked well and I knew his location throughout the entire trip.
When the economy turned, people began using the devices not for tracking their pets, but other people (usually, spouses, girlfriends, etc) without their knowledge. (We used to laugh at some of the names users gave their devices). Some used the device to stalk and kill their intended victims. That's the down-side to their use.
The primary difference I see in their new device is the one feature we wanted to see added to ours - that is a button to send an alert. They also improved the ability to obtain a location even when a GPS signal could not be obtained. Given the recent events where kids have been abducted and killed - the moment that somebody realized there was a problem, their location could be ascertained. Hypothetically, if the girls had these devices, they might still be alive today.
If you have been to a large amusement part and lost sight of your child, being able to pull out your smartphone and find your kid is a blessing.
It's good to see they are getting some good press on this.
Not really the main risk (Score:3)
I think a tracking device is bad because it induces a false sense of security. It's not so much about where your kid is, it's about what he is doing.
From my experience watching over my now 6 (and a half !) yr old nephew, losing sight of him is not really an issue per se. I've lost track of him a handful of times over the years - how far can a kid go in 10 seconds ? VERY ! Those instances only served to motivate me to watch him more closely, which is useful for the really dangerous stuff: not stopping at crossings, not staying on the sideway, climbing chairs/tables when you can't even walk, finding the adults fussing over you when you get close to an electrical outlet a lot of fun...
I'm betting the ratio of kids hurt or dead because of being lost/kidnapped to kids hurt/dead because of not being watched closely enough is one to ten thousands. Let's not get the issue wrong, especially when "fixing" the wrong issue can lead us to falsely assume that the real issue is fixed, too.
NEVER! (Score:4, Funny)
Track the Parents (Score:5, Funny)
No downside (Score:3)
I don't see a downside to GPS tracking your kids. We use GPS on our smart phones to find directions to places in our direct neighborhood. It's ubiquitous. The whole "Children need to find out how to get unlost by themselves" is complete luddite garbage. Children are entering a future where this kind of technology is intrinsically linked to their development. Keeping them inside of a tech-free bubble, just because the parents never grew up with the same technology around them ("And they turned out fine!") is just as bad as brainwashing them into religion at an early age, and yet it's something I often hear from my friends and co-workers who are in the technology industry. I also often see it here on Slashdot whenever someone poses a question on what technology they should introduce to their kids.
Re:No downside (Score:4, Insightful)
I don't see a downside to GPS tracking your kids. We use GPS on our smart phones to find directions to places in our direct neighborhood.
Right! Because, as we all know, GPS will always be available, electronic devices never malfunction (especially in damp, dirty environments such as forests and amusement parks!), and batteries never lose their charge, so why would anyone these days waste time teaching their kids how to find their way using such archaic methods such as knowing which way is North and how the sun rises in the East and sets in the West?
It's ubiquitous. The whole "Children need to find out how to get unlost by themselves" is complete luddite garbage.
YEA, FUCKING LUDDITES! How dare they think that future generations will ever, ever be unable to access geolocation technology! Computers and machines will always be there to do our thinking for us!! GOOO TECHNOLOGICALLY-ASSISTED LAZINESS!!!!
Children are entering a future where this kind of technology is intrinsically linked to their development.
So, because of that, they shouldn't have to learn anything on their own?
Do you not realize how silly that sounds?
Keeping them inside of a tech-free bubble
Strawman - no one is suggesting that.
just because the parents never grew up with the same technology around them ("And they turned out fine!")
Better than 'fine,' actually - I can find my way out of a wet paper sack without being forced to rely on some device that may or may not be available and functioning. Judging from your statements here, I find it doubtful you'd be able to do the same.
I don't suppose you've ever considered the notion that complete reliance on technology is a self-inflicted handicap?
...is just as bad as brainwashing them into religion at an early age...
So, here you say, essentially, that people who want their kids to learn as opposed to having a machine do all the kids' thinking for them, are exactly the same as crazy-ass fundamentalists?
Man, and some folks think I've got a twisted word view... You take the cake.
No (Score:3)
My parents didn't need one, why should I?
Yes and No (Score:3)
Would You Put a Tracking Device On Your Child?
The answer to that is an emphatic, "Yes and No." Slightly off-topic, but I think it is important to keep these thoughts fresh in our minds, in the current context:
The answer to that exact question is, "Yes." I might put a tracking device on my child, if I chose to, for my own reasons, under my own authority and control, without coercion or consideration by society, government, or any third party.
But do not confuse that with the question, "Would I consent to allowing someone else to put a tracking device on my child, or would I put a third-party-controlled tracking device on my child?" The answer to that is a very tenuous, "Maybe, but I need a lot more information and some serious legal accountability."
Even more hazardous is the question, "Would you consent to society mandating that children wear a tracking device under a third party's control?" The answer to that is an emphatic, "No."
Ubiquitous tracking is presumption of guilt. In my nation, the government is not authorized to create such a law. Let us not slip down the slope by failing to restate those limits early and often.
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