Australian Workplace Tribunal Rules Facebook Unfriending Constitutes "Bullying" 208
An anonymous reader writes: Unfriending employees on Facebook and not saying good morning could constitute workplace bullying, an Australian workplace tribunal has ruled. Australia's Fair Work Commission decided that administrator Lisa Bird had bullied real estate agent Rachael Roberts after unfriending her from Facebook. The commission's deputy president Nicole Wells said the act showed a "lack of emotional maturity" and was "indicative of unreasonable behavior."
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The relevant quote, buried at the very end of the article:
"The Fair Work Commission didn't find that unfriending someone on Facebook constitutes workplace bullying," Josh Bornstein, a lawyer at the firm Maurice Blackburn, told ABC News.
"What the Fair Work Commission did find is that a pattern of unreasonable behaviour, hostile behaviour, belittling behaviour over about a two-year period, which featured a range of different behaviours including berating, excluding and so on, constituted a workplace bullying."
More or less, unfriending someone, in and of itself, is not bullying, nor was that the ruling. The unfriending that happened in this case was merely an example of hostile or otherwise unfriendly behavior aimed at the plaintiff by the defendant. Even so, none of the examples of "belittling behavior" strike me as significant enough to involve the court system. The very notion that the courts are being called in to resolve a personal spat strikes me as utterly ridiculous.
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At most, unfriending someone on Facebook in this particular instance was merely another action in a series of actions that as a whole constituted systemic bullying.
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Yeah. Slashdot likes to use sensationalist headlines to get clicks. And it works.
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Keep up the good work.
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Well, there's ads on the page that get displayed when you click.
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Huh? Slashdot doesn't have any ads.
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I never even realized slashdot had ads, until once day there was a notice up top that said I was eligible to disable advertisements...
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Fun fact - that checkbox doesn't prevent the ads, and hasn't in about a decade.
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So the key statement is, "The Fair Work Commission didn't find that unfriending someone on Facebook constitutes workplace bullying," which is the exact opposite of what the Slashdot summary says.
But of course. Would it make for great discussion otherwise? To be fair to Slashdot the Daily Telegraph has a very similar headline.
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It's the exact opposite of what the source article title says to. Just standard click bait garbage.
A number of acts all of which are not considered "workplace bullying" individually can when considered as a whole constitute "workplace bullying" is apparently the actual ruling. Which should be obvious since repetition is part of the usual bullying definition.
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Yep, unfortunately, lying does frequently produce better results than telling the truth.
Just look at politicians. How many of them would have been elected if they told the truth?
Our society provides every incentive to lie, and almost no disincentive against it.
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Are You Fucking Kidding Me???
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Chronical humiliation, or harassment is a thing. It is perhaps a "crime" worth recognizing because it just makes someone's life crappy for no good reason. It makes no sense to live in such prosperity and wealth and to have a crappy sad life.
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The very notion that the courts are being called in to resolve a personal spat strikes me as utterly ridiculous.
It's because it involves employment. We've come up with the idea that employment is not personal and should involve everybody. If you want to abort a baby that's a private decision between you and your doctor, but if money changes hands and somebody is employed we all need to stick our noses into it to make sure everything is "fair."
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Sorry, you opened yourself up with that one
I did? I thought I was completely consistent in asserting that all of the above are private.
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I thought it was pretty recognizably dismissive of that view, actually, e.g., "We've come up with this crazy idea..."
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Hey, thanks. This feels like how I used to read Slashdot, skipping past TFA to get the real story from the comments. Especially when it was obvious that TFS was rubbish.
Still rediculous (Score:2)
So, when does unfriending someone constituted as "unreasonable behavior"?
It is still ridiculous.
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So, when does unfriending someone constituted as "unreasonable behavior"?
It is still ridiculous.
What's the difference between shredding documents due to paranoia, and shredding only one specific document which had evidence of illegal activity that the courts were after? One of them is a normal action, the other constitutes a crime.
As for your question, it becomes unreasonable behaviour when it is done as part of a repeated and systematic attack on a person for the sole reason of bullying and belittling. Nothing individually is unreasonable but all together it shows a pattern of behaviour and that patt
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Even so, none of the examples of "belittling behavior" strike me as significant enough to involve the court system.
The behaviors were only some of them and though each individual one is not significant, combined that can make working hell. They may also lead to other employees treating her similarly. For example, if the boss stops acknowledging an employee's presence others may stop as well.
The very notion that the courts are being called in to resolve a personal spat strikes me as utterly ridiculous.
It is not the courts. It is the Fair Work Commission [fwc.gov.au], a body set up to deal with situations like this.
She could quit but that has unemployment benefits issues. Where I live if you quit you don't get any benefits.
Headline is almost correct (Score:2)
“[Unfriending this colleague] evinces a lack of emotional maturity and is indicative of unreasonable behaviour,” the tribunal ruled.
So unfriending someone is among the list of things which can constitute bullying, even though by itself it wouldn't be.
Though personally, I think it's a good idea to unfriend every litigious crybaby who wants to look at my Facebook account to see if I said something she didn't like. A little Bird told me so.
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Even so, none of the examples of "belittling behavior" strike me as significant enough to involve the court system.
None of the examples individually are. But together they make up an example of systemic bullying which has lead an employee to be brought to tears just for going to work. Do you think that's an acceptable employer / employee relationship?
Australia has very clearly defined workplace harassment and bullying laws that protect individual employees, and employees must prove that any case is systematic i.e. it needs to be repeated and done with specific intent against the will of a person.
What? (Score:5, Insightful)
So, unfriending someone is bullying, presumably not accepting a friend request in the first place is bullying, maybe not sending someone a friend request is bullying too? We are all bullies now.
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Shut up, you bully.
Why haven't you found me and sent a friend request to me yet?
You bullying is oppressing me.
You must be part of the patriarchy, you oppressor.
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Oh yeah, well, I accepted a friend request from one of your friends, but not from you!
Say Uncle!!!
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Hopefully this idiocy is overturned in court.
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I was OK with refusing to go out with me, but the restraining order was the last straw.
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Supermodels have been bullying me for years now by refusing to go out with me!!! Help! I'm being oppressed!
If at first, dating a supermodel does not succeed, redefine "supermodel".
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Bonjour!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v_CgPsGY5Mw [youtube.com]
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And stiffies make them uncomfortable.
The judge did it also.
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If you read the article you will find the it says the EXACT OPPOSITE of the Slashdot headline.
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Read the fuckin' article?!
Why would I do that?
samzenpus obviously didn't.
Oh, and submitted by "An anonymous reader".
OH LAWD ALMIGHTY it reeks of troll in here today.
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Oh shit... I'm in soooo much trouble now.
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Well, it was an executive order [cnn.com] some time ago, on this end of the world. You have to figure you eventually saw this coming.
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Not having already preemptively sent me a friend request I'm going to consider a micro-aggression.
You didn't even give me a trigger warning you insensitive clod.
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I don't even use Facebook so I bully as many people as possible at once!
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So, unfriending someone is bullying, presumably not accepting a friend request in the first place is bullying, maybe not sending someone a friend request is bullying too? We are all bullies now.
Only in the Slashdot headline. The reality is that the Fair Work Tribunal has found a repeated pattern of bullying behaviour at one time even causing the employee to cry and that part of it was specific exclusion including but not at all limited to unfriending the person on Facebook over a workplace spat.
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Crying at work is harassing everybody in earshot.
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I don't use FB at all - what does that make me?
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I don't use FB at all - what does that make me?
Sensible?
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Although the summary is misleading, I think there are people very confused about the social aspect of social media. A Facebook friend is not necessarily a friend. Being unfriended does not mean you lost a friend.
And people wonder why I quit Facebook years ago (Score:5, Insightful)
And people wonder why I quit Facebook years ago. I can't wait until the place turns into a nest of libel lawsuit discovery in the next few years - my popcorn is ready.
Re:And people wonder why I quit Facebook years ago (Score:4, Insightful)
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Relevant [slashdot.org] and I've commented on that story, so no need to regurgitate here.
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This isn't a Facebook Issue. This is a whiny self-centered wimpy fragile human, who should probably be put in a mental institution's padded cell, because obviously life is too hard for them.
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This isn't a Facebook Issue. This is a whiny self-centered wimpy fragile human, who should probably be put in a mental institution's padded cell, because obviously life is too hard for them.
This is Facebook's target demographic.
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In lieu of mod points... I offer you a slow clap. You... just... won... the... internet...
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i think you meant tumblr?
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It must be comforting to think that everyone is wondering why you quit Facebook and spending their time wishing you'd come back and share your quips and insights on daily trivia.
Unfortunately, it's not true. They're not wondering. They're not even talking about you.
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And people wonder why I quit Facebook years ago. I can't wait until the place turns into a nest of libel lawsuit discovery in the next few years - my popcorn is ready.
That will only happen if you read the slashdot headline. The daily mail actually has this quote: "The Fair Work Commission didn't find that unfriending someone on Facebook constitutes workplace bullying" So yes Facebook is EVIL. EVIL I SAY!
I'm wondering if I should instead be quitting Slashdot.
What a crock of shit (Score:2)
When you loose the right to choose your own friends, what does that say about a society? These people need to wake the fuck up and statt living in the real world.
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First off, nobody said anything to the contrary.
Second, t
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First off, nobody said anything to the contrary.
Yes they did. See the headline and opening line of this very story. It's complete and utter bollocks, and contradicted entirely by the quotes from the article you've given above, but it still said it.
Honestly, some people. You've supposed to RTFS and not RTFA, not the other way around!
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That's one reason why I thought that Google+'s circles was superior to the "Friends" label on Facebook. Sure, I can add my co-workers to the "Co-Workers" circle and show them only work-appropriate posts. Meanwhile, my friends can get the NSFW posts.
Of course, Google+ messed it up with their real name policy. My primary social media network is Twitter where I can use a pseudonym and not get my account revoked for not using my real name. (And yes, I'm aware that my Slashdot account uses my real name. Thi
Completely misleading click bait headline (Score:5, Informative)
"The Fair Work Commission didn't find that unfriending someone on Facebook constitutes workplace bullying," Josh Bornstein, a lawyer at the firm Maurice Blackburn, told ABC News.
"What the Fair Work Commission did find is that a pattern of unreasonable behaviour, hostile behaviour, belittling behaviour over about a two-year period, which featured a range of different behaviours including berating, excluding and so on, constituted a workplace bullying."
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Re:Completely misleading click bait headline (Score:5, Funny)
Slashdot posted a BS headline. What happened next shocked everyone...
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Get more clicks with this one weird trick?
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Ok, that's much clearer. You have to friend, then slowly frenemy, then finally unfriend someone to be considered a bully, got it.
I for one am grateful for our glorious, inexorable, Internet-enabled evolution of the English language. Who says the next generation is devoid of cultural influence?
Please tell me there is more to this story.... (Score:2)
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Please tell me there is more than just those items. There has to be something else going on here. There has to be....
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There is, if you just read the article.
I did. I just wanted to emphasize how bad the headline was.
Clickbait (Score:2, Informative)
Article title: Facebook 'unfriending' can constitute workplace bullying, Australian tribunal finds
Article content: Legal experts said the case did not mean that unfriending a colleague on Facebook would automatically constitute bullying.
"The Fair Work Commission didn't find that unfriending someone on Facebook constitutes workplace bullying," Josh Bornstein, a lawyer at the firm Maurice Blackburn, told ABC News.
"What the Fair Work Commission did find is that a pattern of unreasonable behaviour, hostile beha
Read the article (Score:5, Informative)
The title is misleading. The unfriending was part of a range of things that the one coworker did to her coworker.
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The title is misleading. The unfriending was part of a range of things that the one coworker did to her coworker.
It's more than misleading, it is an outright lie.
Disagreeing with someone (Score:2)
In today's society of entitled dips*its, even disagreeing with someone is bullying.
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This being the UK
What being the UK?
click-bait (Score:5, Insightful)
"What the Fair Work Commission did find is that a pattern of unreasonable behaviour, hostile behaviour, belittling behaviour over about a two-year period, which featured a range of different behaviours including berating, excluding and so on, constituted a workplace bullying."
it just so happened that unfriending happened in that period.
click-bait
WTF?!? (Score:2)
If you can be hurt by someone not speaking to you or by unfriending, you sorta deserved to be called a pussy, don't you?
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If you can be hurt by someone not speaking to you or by unfriending, you sorta deserved to be called a pussy, don't you?
No.
What isn't deserved is for that other person to be branded a bully simply because they did those things to you.
But then, that's not what happened here. At all. The headline is pure click-bait.
Even schwit1 was ashamed to put his name on it (Score:2)
Clearly a hoax. The correct expression would be "decobbering".
bully (Score:2)
then i am in big DO-DO
The very last post on FB was unfriending EVERYONE
and telling FB to go shove a dried shucked corn cob up it's rear end
Calm the fuck down (Score:2)
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If the original article can't even write an accurate headline, what hope is there for Slashdot editors to do better? Based on past performance, I doubt they even read the articles they post.
Oh, boo hoo! (Score:2)
Totally misleading -article COMPLETELY contradicts (Score:5, Insightful)
Australian Workplace Tribunal Rules Facebook Unfriending Constitutes "Bullying"
They didn't rule that at all. Just read the last paragraph of the article:
"The Fair Work Commission didn't find that unfriending someone on Facebook constitutes workplace bullying,"
That is a complete contradiction of the headline and the opening of the summary.
If Slashdot had a shred of integrity left, it would retract this story in its entirety and apologise for talking bollocks.
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That is a complete contradiction of the headline and the opening of the summary.
Yes this contradiction is too complete, it sounds like suspiciously specific denial, that's why it made it to headline :P
Facebook use shows a lack of maturity (Score:2)
Furthermore, if 'unfriending' someone could be considered bullying, then sending someone a friend request could also be considered bullying, because you're putting that person on the spot to accept the request; the reciprocal of this would also be true: failure to graciously accept any and all
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They improve the S/N ratio for the rest of the net. Just like AOL of old.
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Good fucking morning (Score:2)
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And death adders.
Force is worse than bullying (Score:2)
Unfriending employees on Facebook and not saying good morning could constitute workplace bullying
Well, of course it could, but that's no reason to get the law involved.
As usual.... (Score:3)
....I'm so glad I don't have a Facebook account.
Friend me, unfriend me, ignore me, whatever......I'm just happy to not have this drama-magnet in my life.
BlockTogether (Score:2)
That's not all. There are people, many of whom post on Slashdot on Fridays, who really believe blocking someone on Twitter = Censorship.
some people.. (Score:2)
Some people are to stupid and much tor fragile to be let out of the house. What is next? Telling people it is illegal to end a friendship online? Whoever thinks such is reasonable really needs to get a life. And yes, I will unfriend any among my social networks who I find out think that this is reasonable. Life is too short to put up with nitwits.
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Unfriending someone doesn't even come close to what I went through.
I agree. Same here. But people with a sense of entitlement are jumping on the bandwagon, because, hey, media coverage, instant fame, power over other individuals. And the real issues get that much more polluted.
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I don't know what you specifically went through, but bullying doesn't have to necessarily meet that standard to be bullying. I admit to feeling like there is a bit of over-sensitivity these days, but it is also true that people react to things differently and where you or I might need to be beaten up (for example) to feel bullied, some other person might be vulnerable through social interaction alone.
As an action in the midst of other attacks, an unfriending could certainly be a clear (to you), but deniabl
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Any action that implies the loss of a relationship can have emotional meaning above and beyond the usual impact of such an action.
Yes, a loss of a relationship can mean feelings are hurt but are you honestly saying that I must be friends with everyone and I'm never allowed to terminate a relationship? Terminating a relationship, if that is all you do, is the opposite of bullying. Yes, it can hurt your feelings but so can not being invited to a party (still not bullying). Bullying is actively having a negative relationship with someone. Ignoring someone or having an indifferent relationship is not bullying even in the workplace.