
Will AI Transform Online Dating? (cnn.com) 158
"Dating apps are on the cusp of a major transformation," argues CNN, suggesting AI-powered possibilities like "personalized chatbots dating other chatbots on your behalf," as well as "AI concierges fielding questions about potential matches," and "advanced algorithms predicting compatibility better than ever before."
At its investor day last week, executives from Match Group — the parent company of Match.com, Tinder, Hinge, OkCupid, Our Time and more — teased plans to use AI to improve user experiences and help make better connections. Justin McLeod, CEO of Hinge, outlined how the company intends to fully embrace AI next year: more personalized matching, smarter algorithms that adapt to users and better understand them over time and AI coaching for struggling daters. "While AI is not going to be a panacea when it comes to the very deeply and personal problem of love, I can tell you that it is going to transform the dating app experience, taking it from a do-it-yourself platform to an expertly guided journey that leads to far better outcomes and much better value to our daters," he told investors....
It's already starting to play a bigger role. Tinder, for example, uses AI to help users select their best profile photos. Meanwhile, Bumble's recently enhanced "For You" roundup uses advanced AI when delivering its daily set of four curated profiles based on a user's preferences and past matches. Bumble also uses AI in safety features like its Private Detector — an AI-powered tool that blurs explicit images — and Deception Detector, which identifies spam, scams and fake profiles. Similarly, Match Group offers tools like buttons that say "Are You Sure?" to detect harmful language and "Does This Bother You?" to prompt users to report inappropriate behavior....
According to Liesel Sharabi, an associate professor at Arizona State University's Hugh Downs School of Human Communication, the dating industry is still "very much in the early stages" of embracing AI. "The platforms are still figuring out its role in the online dating experience, but it really does have the potential to transform this space...." Bumble founder Whitney Wolfe Herd previously said she envisions AI functioning as a dating concierge, helping users navigate matches, set up dates and respond to messages. Startups such as Volar and Rizz have already experimented with chatbots that help respond to messages. On Rizz, users upload screenshots of conversations they're having on other dating apps, and the platform helps create flirty replies. (Volar, a standalone dating app that trains on users' preferences and automatically responds to other chatbots, shut down in September due to lack of funding.) While the concept of chatbots dating on your behalf may seem strange, it could reduce the tedious early-stage communication by focusing more on highly compatible matches, Sharabi said...
During Match Group's investor day, Hinge's McLeod announced plans to build the "world's most knowledgeable dating coach" using years of insights from the dating process... McLeod said Hinge has already seen a higher number of matches and subscription renewals with its improved AI algorithm among early test groups. It plans to roll this out globally in March.
And of course, some users are already using ChatGPT to write online dating profiles or respond to messages, the article points out...
It's already starting to play a bigger role. Tinder, for example, uses AI to help users select their best profile photos. Meanwhile, Bumble's recently enhanced "For You" roundup uses advanced AI when delivering its daily set of four curated profiles based on a user's preferences and past matches. Bumble also uses AI in safety features like its Private Detector — an AI-powered tool that blurs explicit images — and Deception Detector, which identifies spam, scams and fake profiles. Similarly, Match Group offers tools like buttons that say "Are You Sure?" to detect harmful language and "Does This Bother You?" to prompt users to report inappropriate behavior....
According to Liesel Sharabi, an associate professor at Arizona State University's Hugh Downs School of Human Communication, the dating industry is still "very much in the early stages" of embracing AI. "The platforms are still figuring out its role in the online dating experience, but it really does have the potential to transform this space...." Bumble founder Whitney Wolfe Herd previously said she envisions AI functioning as a dating concierge, helping users navigate matches, set up dates and respond to messages. Startups such as Volar and Rizz have already experimented with chatbots that help respond to messages. On Rizz, users upload screenshots of conversations they're having on other dating apps, and the platform helps create flirty replies. (Volar, a standalone dating app that trains on users' preferences and automatically responds to other chatbots, shut down in September due to lack of funding.) While the concept of chatbots dating on your behalf may seem strange, it could reduce the tedious early-stage communication by focusing more on highly compatible matches, Sharabi said...
During Match Group's investor day, Hinge's McLeod announced plans to build the "world's most knowledgeable dating coach" using years of insights from the dating process... McLeod said Hinge has already seen a higher number of matches and subscription renewals with its improved AI algorithm among early test groups. It plans to roll this out globally in March.
And of course, some users are already using ChatGPT to write online dating profiles or respond to messages, the article points out...
Online dating goal is to keep you looking (Score:5, Insightful)
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PigTOW
Path of least resistance and all that...
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Online Dating: Dating for the desperate and stupid (Score:2)
Online dating used to work to some degree, but chatbots and greed and scammers have flooded in. The future is only crapification. Luckily websites like Ashley Madison are ample proof that dumb and desperate people will still shell out lots of money to be decieved into thinking they're on a dating site and not a scam site. AI will only make everything scammier.
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I met my boyfriend online, but that was almost 9 years ago when OkCupid was still reasonably decent.
I'd hate to be out looking again now. It's a good thing our relationship is good and we get along well!
Re:Online dating goal is to keep you looking (Score:4, Funny)
That's much more efficient than going on 3 dates and finding out the hard way that your prospect has 7 fingers on the left hand
Oh, how I miss 7 fingered Tiffany.
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That's much more efficient than going on 3 dates and finding out the hard way that your prospect has 7 fingers on the left hand
Oh, how I miss 7 fingered Tiffany.
I too have dated a girl from Norfolk (England's Alabama for those unfamiliar, lots of webbed feet).
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I met my wife on OKCupid 8 years ago.
I'd shudder to think what people have to go through today to make that work.
But there's a secret... dating sites for people with similar interests. By finding and going through these sites to begin with you are already narrowing down the possibilities. There's sites for guys with large beard and the women who like beards. Sites for guys who like the outdoors and women who also like the outdoors. Same for gamers, hunters, or folks who like specific genres of music.
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The problem with that is that those sites tend to have very small pools. If I go on a major dating site, I might have a few thousand options near me. On an interest specific one, I might have a few dozen. While those dozens may be statistically better matches, they need to be active on the site- so not already in a relationship with someone else on the site and actively checking for matches. The smaller the site is (either in general or in your area), the fewer potential matches your partner has, the l
Validation exhaustion (Score:2)
Future speculation - AI used to 'converse' and soak up time for those with attention seeing behavior to get more validation of self-worth.
Expect one or more of the dating apps to buy an AI chatbot company + all of the AI chatbot logs for use as training.
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I'd say it's more important to find someone with a good personality match, which is what dating sites can't really help you with. Shared interests are something you can find.
AI sounds like it should help in theory, but in reality it won't. It's just a fancy multiple choice personality test.
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A better way is to get involved in activities you care about. It could be charity work, church, hobby groups, whatever is important to you. When you get involved in these activities, you find yourself getting to know other people who share your views about what is important. It's a whole lot more reliable than an online profile.
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Maybe try the local chapter of the edge lords or the black shorts. Might be more up your alley.
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Those codes of conduct are written that way because women who are interested in dancing or computers or archery or whatever are there for dancing or computers or archery or whatever and not to be pestered by incels.
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Ok, and what about men who are interested in dancing, or computers or archery or whatever are there for dancing or computers or archery or whatever and not to be pestered by lunatics, psychos and other assorted 'professional victims'.
Oh, well that's just men, so that's not important I suppose. Always "believe the woman" and all that, I know..
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Remember the Ashley Madison scandal? millions of male profiles, about 10,000 actual human female profiles.
When I was on OKCupid, back around 2010, all I got was trolled by women half my age. Same on PlentyofFish.
Re:Online dating goal is to keep you looking (Score:4, Interesting)
mThis is the part that genuinely confuses me. There are veritable armies of people who genuinely believe that the likes of Tinder are for finding husband/wife.
If you get married from Tinder, Tinder's algorithm failed in in the worst possible way. It cost them a "paying" man and "an attraction of paying men" woman. A colossal failure.
Best case scenario is what Tinder is today. Small amount of women who are inundated with messages from plentiful men daily. That makes them believe they're highly sought after as marriage partners, so they have fun sleeping around knowing that they'll find a marriage partner later. Almost all men on the other hand are forced to work like a little bitch that they are, paying to see more matches because no one replies. Former are kept on the hook through illusion of plentifulness of "I just need to score one of these handsome rich men and I'm set for life" while being so far below these men that they have a harem of copies of that women on a speed dial because they're all dating the tiny portion of him that is on the site. All while latter are the ones who're actually paying for it all, kept attached by the bait of all those women who will never even answer. Instead getting occasional meh date, and quite a few bad ones. But you also just need to score just one of those beautiful women and you're set for marriage" too.
This is what massive market success for a "dating app" looks like. A massive horde of provider gender that used to pay for the family now dumping a significant chunk of this money on various in app purchases, and a sufficient chunk of the receiving gender spending their fertile period being bait for those men.
AI will make marriage even less of a thing, because it will be even better in preventing potential marriage partners ever meeting.
Re:Online dating goal is to keep you looking (Score:4, Interesting)
mThis is the part that genuinely confuses me. There are veritable armies of people who genuinely believe that the likes of Tinder are for finding husband/wife.
If you get married from Tinder, Tinder's algorithm failed in in the worst possible way. It cost them a "paying" man and "an attraction of paying men" woman. A colossal failure.
Best case scenario is what Tinder is today. Small amount of women who are inundated with messages from plentiful men daily. That makes them believe they're highly sought after as marriage partners, so they have fun sleeping around knowing that they'll find a marriage partner later. Almost all men on the other hand are forced to work like a little bitch that they are, paying to see more matches because no one replies. Former are kept on the hook through illusion of plentifulness of "I just need to score one of these handsome rich men and I'm set for life" while being so far below these men that they have a harem of copies of that women on a speed dial because they're all dating the tiny portion of him that is on the site. All while latter are the ones who're actually paying for it all, kept attached by the bait of all those women who will never even answer. Instead getting occasional meh date, and quite a few bad ones. But you also just need to score just one of those beautiful women and you're set for marriage" too.
This is what massive market success for a "dating app" looks like. A massive horde of provider gender that used to pay for the family now dumping a significant chunk of this money on various in app purchases, and a sufficient chunk of the receiving gender spending their fertile period being bait for those men.
AI will make marriage even less of a thing, because it will be even better in preventing potential marriage partners ever meeting.
There are stats that show an interesting gap between male and female users. While men fond female attraction on a normal bell curve, with most women being found in the average like, and the more/less attractive diminishing until you get to the extremes, women found 80 percent of men unattractive. That's not a bell curve, that's a cliff.
So we have something like 80 percent of women excluding 80 percent of men.
And that 20 percent of men now have no reason to engage in normal partnership formation, because they have an incredible number of choices. The rest of the men have to put up with bots if anything.
Women are faced with a triple whammy. Modern women have been taught almost since birth that they are always correct. They have been given feedback that they are all deserving of a 23 year old millionaire, buffed GQ model who has time to take her on 365 vacation days a year, and that they are somehow going to form a permanent relationship with a guy that is getting banged every night by many women.
And there are even Facebook groups for women to find out if the guy in their situationship is in multiple relationships with multiple women.
Well honey, millions of you have been chasing after maybe a thousand guys and have decided that sex with them is okay. He has no need to settle down. Welcome to the world of the bad boys, full of tingles and trauma.
Dating apps, which arose as a way for men to approach women in a safe manner, has evolved into a real mess for women. A relatively few men getting a lot of sex, a lot of women getting traumatized by repeated situationships, ghosting, and unrealistic expectations.
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>women found 80 percent of men unattractive.
There's a critical definition missing that is often left unmentioned. this applies only to "men who are strangers".
Men who woman knows are actually rated close to a proper curve. This is likely why dating apps are as damaging as they are to mating markets. It's mating not through friends and family (meaning the approach is not "stranger" but "pre-vetted and known").
The rest is true. So the mess is very much real.
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>women found 80 percent of men unattractive.
There's a critical definition missing that is often left unmentioned. this applies only to "men who are strangers".
Men who woman knows are actually rated close to a proper curve. This is likely why dating apps are as damaging as they are to mating markets. It's mating not through friends and family (meaning the approach is not "stranger" but "pre-vetted and known").
The rest is true. So the mess is very much real.
I can believe that. Even for myself, it often takes a bit of time to settle into an effective appraisal of a woman's beauty. There is more to it than just a face.
Pre-vetting. One of the huge issues for the young ladies is that the increasing number of fatherless families, dad is not there to do that vetting.
Women generally work their magic in nurturing and keeping the children alive. Men are there to show the children boundaries and turn them into adults.
Same sex marriage can work, but someone needs
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It's not that. It's that when we as men grade stranger women, we grade them on a typical pareto distribution curve. We do the same for women we know.
Women rate known men on a pareto distribution curve. But they rate men they don't know with extreme weight on low end, and very few men on average and almost none on high end.
Reason according to evolutionary psychology is modes of operation. In general, women have two primary modes of operation. One is when they're within their own tribe, where they know everyo
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Other is when they're taken as war brides after they tribe has been defeated and men killed off. This is why men don't have the second mode of operation. In tribal warfare, you kill off the men and take women as prizes. So we only have one mode of operation.
Although there is the angry desert god and his orders to the Israelites:
"Now therefore kill every male among the little ones, and kill every woman that hath known man by lying with him. But all the women children, that have not known a man by lying with him, keep alive for yourselves." Numbers 31:17-18 KJV
So there is some back and forth there. Otherwise the concept is sound enough,
And when woman is a war bride, she faces extreme danger from new tribe's women and men. So those that survived seem to have chosen the strategy of selecting only the most aggressive, most dangerous men and mating with as many of them as possible.
Having a strong man for protection is also a huge plus in survival strategy.
That is one strategy tha
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>"There are men out there who are not good for you, you should stop trying to mate with them. If you are constantly getting ghosted or rejected, consider that you are damaging yourself." Women with many sexual partners tend to have trouble pair bonding.
Evolutionary psychology offers a good explanation for this. When woman is in a war bride mode, all women within the tribe will be extremely hostile to her. Like all genes, theirs are selfish and want to maintain themselves over hers. That means if that wom
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great comment! Bad English ;P
no worries, it's not a real criticism; my English is horrid too and I have zero excuses e.g. it's my one and only native language too bad I can't do it well
Why not a business model for the long-term? (Score:2)
You're assuming a particular kind of business model, and it is true that the "easy money" comes from men looking for more sex and willing to pay for it.
Too many years since I looked at such a website, but I have never seen one that had a business model involving sustained marriages... Can't really remember my "solution approach" thoughts on the topic, but I think part of the idea was that the website would get money over a longer period of time. A small amount for initial meetings, but with most of the paym
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If any website or individual had me converse with a chat bot before dating, that would be an instant "no" for me.
True, I've never been on a dating site. Maybe they're so terrible that users can't even be bothered to write their own messages anymore. That would be in line with what I hear about them. Layering AI on top of hogshit wouldn't make it less fecal, though.
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Might as well just get an AI girlfriend at that point. That seems to be enough for some guys.
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Might as well just get an AI girlfriend at that point. That seems to be enough for some guys.
It isn't "enough". It might be about all most guys will get today.
Despite the media and social narrative, most men are decent people. Most men would like to find love and settle down with a loving woman, and raise a child or two.
But that is not what most men are going to get today.
So much of the present day situation is just plain weird. Men have been told to stop approaching women - which had a lot to do with the rise of modern dating apps. And in recent times, women have been recording things like
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there's actually plenty of good men out there, they just aren't fitting the 666 mold. 666= Over 6' tall (185 cm), with a 6 pack abs, making over 6 figures. Oh, and these women asking this, well, they also seem to mostly want men between 19 and 24... meaning you got out of university and STARTED a 6 figure job straight from university.
and that 4b movement, that's a surefire way to NEVER meet a good man, just those go
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That's a pretty shitty German version of a scam. Most people nowadays don't even order anything as they wait.
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No, that's how modern dating works. You don't order things until your date arrives. Specifically because restaurants started doing this shit, plus catfishing, plus "I'm fucking other man/woman so here's an excuse 5 minutes before the time that I'm not coming", plus ghosting.
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If any website or individual had me converse with a chat bot before dating, that would be an instant "no" for me.
True, I've never been on a dating site. Maybe they're so terrible that users can't even be bothered to write their own messages anymore. That would be in line with what I hear about them. Layering AI on top of hogshit wouldn't make it less fecal, though.
If not for the chatbots, around 80 percent of male customers would get no response at all.
Hammer looking for a nail. (Score:2)
Tinder, for example, uses AI to help users select their best profile photos.
Say what? The AI is going to help you pick what psychopathic behavior you want to deal with or what STD you want to acquire?
Imagine being in a mental state such that you couldn't decide whether you are attracted to someone in a photo.
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It isn't AI. They test putting your different photos first, and figure out what gets the most likes. Then they reorder your photos to the best first.
It's a nice feature, but it isn't AI.
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It isn't AI. They test putting your different photos first, and figure out what gets the most likes. Then they reorder your photos to the best first.
It's a nice feature, but it isn't AI.
It can be a very delusional feature, with women wearing way too much makeup, then applying a lot of filters. Coming up with what is essentially a cartoon of themselves.
One complaint many men have is that if they do manage to score a date, the lady looks nothing like her images on the app. Deception 101.
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That has nothing to do with the feature, that has to do with what pictures people decide to upload.
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That has nothing to do with the feature, that has to do with what pictures people decide to upload.
Why not? If the algorithm say that a woman with 100 percent even skin tone, the new trend of 2 inch long fake eyelashes, and lip fillers is really attractive, that men really like the bolted on grapefruit halves of breast implants look and that is what men want - then that is what gets uploaded, and since the algorithm selects those, that is what the ladies will choose to upload. It exists as a continuum, not as a one time thing.
Now, imagine if men were to select what gets placed at the front. A bit of
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If I were in the market I'd be looking for someone who won't play dating site games.
Maybe a decent comprehensive personality match neural net could dispense with the need.
But don't these sites make their money with false leads and teases?
It would probably have to be a new company.
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If I were in the market I'd be looking for someone who won't play dating site games.
Maybe a decent comprehensive personality match neural net could dispense with the need.
But don't these sites make their money with false leads and teases?
It would probably have to be a new company.
There is always the question of what makes for a good match. My SO and I are quite different. She is outgoing and gregarious. A people person. I am terse and extremely analytic. I'm not an introvert, but I don't care if I never had to speak to another person ever again.
No way we would have ever been matched. Then again, we've been married a long time.
Impossiburu (Score:2)
If the number of matches increases, then the number of subscription renewals decreases.
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Yep. The number one rule of running a dating site is DON'T, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, ever make a lasting match. A lasting match is two lost clients.
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Assuming there were two clients to begin with. For the most part, the only people on dating sites are men; the women are all bots. A few have been caught refusing to allow actual women to sign up.
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I don't bother with online "dating" services, since there isn't a single one that's not a scam. If I want to meet people, I put on my big boy pants and get my lazy ass out of the house. I know that's an alien concept to many, but, hey, scammers need to make a living, too.
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Then you just go door to door asking people to be friends?
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I rather just our AIs communicate with each other while me and her just does physical stuff.
Nice (Score:2)
In a world of fake people we can finally dispense with the people part.
Betteridge is right again! (Score:5, Interesting)
There's nothing AI can do to fix the inherent bias that women have in rating men: https://rudd-o.com/archives/female-hypergamy-in-a-single-stat [rudd-o.com]
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If someone's looks are your primary consideration, you've lost already. Yes, looks are a part of how a person presents themselves, so looks aren't meaningless. But they also aren't a predictor of a successful relationship.
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There's nothing AI can do to fix the inherent bias that women have in rating men: https://rudd-o.com/archives/female-hypergamy-in-a-single-stat [rudd-o.com]
Did hypergamy exist for all of humanity, or is that a relatively new problem?
If society can go back even a single century and find the problem of hypergamy not nearly as prevalent as today, then I’d say the problem is a learned one. A trained one. If we want to fix that then stop rewarding failure. Especially failure in marriage. A marriage certificate, should not be considered a temporary document. Divorce does not exist for retirement planning. And unless society starts learning that with marr
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There's nothing AI can do to fix the inherent bias that women have in rating men: https://rudd-o.com/archives/female-hypergamy-in-a-single-stat [rudd-o.com]
Did hypergamy exist for all of humanity, or is that a relatively new problem?
What has happened is that it has changed. Mutated into something weird.
It is completely normal for women to want various attributes in a man they wish to mate with. It is like how men are attracted to beauty - in the search for reproductive soundness, beauty is a metric.
The problem is that the quality that gives women the so called tingles, is not compatible with modern life. So many women become what is called "alpha widowed" as the chase after the wrong type of men.
This aggressive male might have be
Re: Betteridge is right again! (Score:2)
What has happened is that it has changed. Mutated into something weird.
It has absolutely NOTHING to do with young men participating in team sports less and less, fewer meeting minimum military basic training requirements, going to college in smaller numbers, and spending more of their time playing CoD and Fortnight. It's women's fault, lol.
This is incel rhetoric. Maybe take responsibility for where you're at in life, BOOTSTRAPS.
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Kinda figures incels would be in the Slashdot comment section.
Outlawing no-fault divorce will not finally get you a wife, bud.
Re: Betteridge is right again! (Score:2)
"hypergamy" wasn't on my bingo card this week, maybe stay off the incel forums a while, go outdoors, try to get laid or something.
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This is the way, at least yours anyway.
What's clear is a lot of rather unhappy people on this thread are determined to go for what they think society demands of them rather than what they actually want. The best choice is the one that makes you happy and to hell with convention.
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Now ask yourself how important looks are for men vs women when deciding to date someone...
Well, now (Score:4, Insightful)
Here's another story that makes me feel happy to be an old married guy!
Dating apps seem like they'd be torture.
AI for AI dating (Score:5, Insightful)
People will use AI tools to answer AI chatbots. Eventually we can take people entirely out of the picture.
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People will use AI tools to answer AI chatbots. Eventually we can take people entirely out of the picture.
... and then we'll rename this planet to "Solaria".
Only if the business model changes (Score:4, Interesting)
"Solving" online dating would be easy, just pair people up with a few people they're actually likely to match with.
Companies don't do that now not because the technology is missing AI magic, but because the business model is engagement. They want endless swiping, not matchmaking.
AI is not what's been missing to make that change. Recommendation algorithms that would do an insanely good job (but fail to make a company money) have been around for a long time now.
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The difficulty is figuring out who they're likely to match. They need data to do that, and people are putting less and less data into the apps. In the old days, people wrote long profiles. Or OKCupid had thousands of user generated questions and could match you on what the two of you answered (not looking just for the same answers, but for their answer being what you wanted them to answer) based on the priority you gave that question.
Modern apps? 5 pictures and 2 sentences. Sentences optional. There's
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To a degree that's true. To a degree that's not. It's the same argument as "drug companies don't want to make drugs that are actual cures". And yet - they do.
IMHO you've made a pithy assertion. Sounds great! Yes, of course there is motivation to keep users, encourage engagement, all that stuff. But companies also recognize that people to talk to each other and when their products do "solve the problem" that also improves standing in the market among competitors. Success stories drive positive coverage and b
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Exactly, that's why whenever there is a competitor that actually matches, they buy them off and neuter the algorithm.
That's not a concierge.. (Score:2)
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So you can imagine the futuristic version of this presumably everyone wants.
"from the AI : Hi Tim/Suzy. I've gotten you a date for tonight. Here's the outfit to wear from your closet. Please turn on the stream when you're getting dressed so I can make sure you look sharp"
"factoring in your preferences, $match_name is the best you can do at this time"
So it's a cool fantasy but when it's frictionless to get another partner, who would stay? Tim and Suzy are going to hang out, they will be highly likely to
AI Will Transform Everything (Score:4, Funny)
...into shit.
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I have an idea, let's put people together regularly. We invite them once a week. Everyone is welcome. They can talk to each other there. To make it economical, we sell drinks. They will need to tune into their feelings for it to work though. Wake up!
That is the so called "singles events"
At this point, they are almost all women attendees. So it is a dying concept.
I watched a video by a woman who organizes such things. She had tried a singles event at her place that should have attracted men, there would be fishing, a picnic and everything very casual. Sounded good.
Failed miserably. men didn't show up because for most men, it was paying to be rejected, and women apparently wanted a club-like setting.
The male/female dynamic is seriously broken. An
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Obvious solution then is give a discount or free-entrance to the men. In foreign countries actually, that is what they do and it works.
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Obvious solution then is give a discount or free-entrance to the men. In foreign countries actually, that is what they do and it works.
In those countries, perhaps men do not see it as yet another opportunity to get rejected because they aren't pretty enough a man, or don't make enough money, or are not assertive to the point of aggression that American women seek for their tingles. (speaking in generalities)
Really, the problem is that the men American women seek have no need to go to a singles event. The guys many American women seek are getting all the women they need, for free, and since there is another one waiting for him, have no n
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Everything is broken. Always has been. Thousands of reasons not to do something. Millions! Oh well... time for coffee.
Then all is well, and the present situation is fine as it is.
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No it isn't. It is broken. Lots of stuff to fix. It is a nice morning here though. Care to join me for coffee? I have tea as well if you like.
Coffee sounds exquisite.
I probably won't even talk about the state of female/male relationships. 8^)
It won't change anything (Score:2)
AI won't transform online dating becuse online dating already is mostly scam.
Not for me (Score:2)
Will AI Transform Online Dating? (Score:3)
"Will AI Transform Online Dating?"
It sure will, but not in a good way.
From being crappy to being crappy? Sure. (Score:2)
That is all the "transformation" we are going to see there. LLMs remain without any application that would even remotely make them worthwhile to operated.
In theory, yes (Score:2)
In practice, the early attempts will suck mightily
It's an open question how long it will take to develop a system that works well
Talk about down the rabbit hole (Score:2)
Next, their chatbot falls for your chatbot, and the two chatbots have a lifelong relationship - that would be about two minutes in your time, and 100 years or more in their time.
Meanwhile, you still haven't met anyone.
Re:Wrong Model (Score:5, Insightful)
Or so all the women who know you tell you. And honestly, most of them probably would rather be gangbanged by six ex-cons on live television than be yourwife.
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I guess I hit a little too close to home. Poor anonymous coward, nursing his bruised ego (and genitals - learn to use a lotion and it won't chafe so much).
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According to parent, 80 is the new 34 [trottolaw.com].
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Tell me where the van you live in is located, so I can have it immediately towed. Into a lake, preferably.
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May as well. Follow the Bumble formula of girl flirts first and let women leave reviews as well (where appropriate). For the small percentage of men who fit the criteria, it would be quite a boon.
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Just give women a 6-6-6 app that can prove the other side matches those qualifications. That is really all that matters.
Dating is simple. Just remember the adage: "Find someone that does."
I hope your latter statement was made in jest, since the 6-6-6 requirement makes dating for women about as “simple” as winning the lottery.
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Just give women a 6-6-6 app that can prove the other side matches those qualifications. That is really all that matters.
Dating is simple. Just remember the adage: "Find someone that does."
I hope your latter statement was made in jest, since the 6-6-6 requirement makes dating for women about as “simple” as winning the lottery.
It's very simple to win the lottery.
It's just very unlikely.