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'Recovering' QAnon Members Seek Help from Therapists, Subreddits, and On Telegram (go.com) 400

"More than at any point since the QAnon conspiracy began, there is a tremendous opportunity to pull disaffected followers out of the conspiracy," writes FiveThirtyEight. And while it's just one of three possible scenarios, online posts suggest at least some members are abandoning the group, "but they will need support to really sever their connection."

ABC News reports that some QAnon adherents "are turning to therapy and online support groups to talk about the damage done when beliefs collide with reality," including Ceally Smith, a working single mom in Kansas City: "We as a society need to start teaching our kids to ask: Where is this information coming from? Can I trust it?" she said. "Anyone can cut and paste anything." After a year, Smith wanted out, suffocated by dark prophesies that were taking up more and more of her time, leaving her terrified....

Another ex-believer, Jitarth Jadeja, now moderates a Reddit forum called QAnon Casualties to help others like him, as well as the relatives of people still consumed by the theory. Membership has doubled in recent weeks to more than 119,000 members. Three new moderators had to be added just to keep up. "They are our friends and family," said Jadeja, of Sydney, Australia. "It's not about who is right or who is wrong. I'm here to preach empathy, for the normal people, the good people who got brainwashed by this death cult." His advice to those fleeing QAnon? Get off social media, take deep breaths, and pour that energy and internet time into local volunteering.

Michael Frink is a Mississippi computer engineer who helps administer a QAnon recovery channel on the social media platform Telegram. He said that while mocking the group has never been more popular online, it will only further alienate people. Frink said he never believed in the QAnon theory but sympathizes with those who did. "I think after the inauguration a lot of them realized they've been taken for a ride," he said.

The New York Times tells the story of one Bernie Sanders supporter who entered — and then exited — the QAnon movement: Those who do leave are often filled with shame. Sometimes their addiction was so severe that they have become estranged from family and friends... "We felt we were coming from a place of moral superiority. We were part of a special club." Meanwhile, her family was eating takeout all the time since she had stopped cooking and her stress levels had shot up, causing her blood pressure medication to stop working. Her doctor, worried, doubled her dose...

When she first left QAnon, she felt a lot of shame and guilt. It was also humbling: Ms. Perron, who has a master's degree, had looked down on Scientologists as people who believed crazy things. But there she was...

She agreed to speak for this article to help others who are still in the throes of QAnon.

And CNN reporter Anderson Cooper recently interviewed a recovering QAnon supporter, who tells him there were many theories about Cooper, including one that said he was actually a robot. The embarrassed former QAnon supporter admits that he had once believed that the people behind Q "were actually a group of 5th dimensional, intra-dimensional, extraterrestrial bi-pedal bird aliens called blue avians."

During that interview, he also tells Anderson Cooper, "I apologize for thinking that you ate babies."
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'Recovering' QAnon Members Seek Help from Therapists, Subreddits, and On Telegram

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  • by rmdingler ( 1955220 ) on Saturday January 30, 2021 @07:46PM (#61010552) Journal

    The ones who leave the cult are the more moderate voices... the convinced faction will double down and resume comfort in their familiar rabbit hole.

    The result will be the average fanaticism of individual members will increase.

    Shame on those who would exploit these most vulnerable... by any means necessary is the war cry of the chieftan we don't want, but perhaps deserve.

    • by hey! ( 33014 ) on Saturday January 30, 2021 @08:29PM (#61010678) Homepage Journal

      There's never been an apocalyptic cult that disappeared just because the apocalypse didn't happen when predicted; you lose a few followers, but the same gullibility that made most cult members members makes it easy for them to swallow excuses for why the apocalypse didn't happen. Broadly speaking it breaks down to two options: the timing of the prediction is a little off, or the Apocalypse actually *did* happen, people aren't attuned enough to the esoteric truth to see. We're seeing *both* flavors of rationalization in QAnon believers: that the storm is still yet to come, only on March 20, or that the storm actually happened, and Trump is still president, just *secretly*.

  • by Gravis Zero ( 934156 ) on Saturday January 30, 2021 @07:58PM (#61010588)

    What's interesting about these people is that they are confused and angry that they could be duped but alas they both lack to tools needed to not be duped and distrust the very sources of information that could help them. What this means is that their "recovery" is a temporary status because they will be once again duped by something that would be otherwise recognized as outlandish.

    Sadly, the best defense for these types of people is to not participate in the political arena where disinformation is abound.

    • Re: (Score:2, Insightful)

      by Anonymous Coward

      What's interesting about these people is that they are confused and angry that they could be duped but alas they both lack to tools needed to not be duped and distrust the very sources of information that could help them. What this means is that their "recovery" is a temporary status because they will be once again duped by something that would be otherwise recognized as outlandish.

      Sadly, the best defense for these types of people is to not participate in the political arena where disinformation is abound.

      It's easy to be dismissive of folks and suggest they're "those kinds of people," meaning dumb, credulous, uneducated, mentally ill, etc

      I would caution, however, those adjectives don't always seem to apply to everyone joining these conspiracy cults. Indeed, there are more than a few sensitive, intelligent folks who seem to be joining these things, and, honestly, it should concern everybody who wants a society functioning off good scientific information that's not based in conspiracy reasoning.

      There are abso

    • by ClickOnThis ( 137803 ) on Saturday January 30, 2021 @08:22PM (#61010658) Journal

      Q: Who is susceptible to deception?
      A: Everyone.

      Deceivers don't appeal to logic. They appeal to the scary parts of us we don't want to admit are within us. The parts of us that contain fear, anger, confusion, doubt, etc. Pseudo-logic and outright fallacies can be the bait, the subtle 'truthiness' that seduces us into listening. And their hook is the promise of a quick and simple solution or explanation for everything. They manipulate us into misplacing our trust in them. And once we have (mis)placed our trust in something, we tend to keep buying in, because to do otherwise is embarrassing, an admission of a failure on our part to spot the deception.

      Getting people out of this kind of mind-trap requires compassion from those who know them. You need to recognize what happened to them could happen to anyone. They don't 'lack the tools' to get out. They just need to be reminded that they still have them, that they're entitled to question what they believe, that they're entitled to do their own research. And there are many people who have escaped cults permanently. But what starts the process (according to many recovered cultists) is planting a seed of doubt in their minds, a pernicious fact that the cult cannot explain. Any one of us can plant that seed with care and love.

      • by QuantumFTL ( 197300 ) on Saturday January 30, 2021 @11:04PM (#61011054)

        Q: Who is susceptible to deception? A: Everyone.

        Deceivers don't appeal to logic.

        I've been using this site for over twenty years, and it's a been most of a decade since I've commented. This is the best thing I've seen on here since then. Whatever you do, keep drumming up the fight against ignorance and propaganda, and the people who've fallen victims of it. I don't want to get personal, but lets just say that I know from intimate experience what brainwashing does to a person, and the tremendous cost of clawing one's way out of it. Division in modern society is inevitable--and we must fight against those who seek to destroy rational thought!--but without empathy for those infected by bad ideas, shortchanged by their personal experiences, we'll end up punishing and alientating those victimized by bad actors exploiting cognitive vulnerabilities that every one of us has, we will push them out of sheer self-defense into voting in the people who will undo us.

      • Q: Who is susceptible to deception?
        A: Everyone.

        Deceivers don't appeal to logic. They appeal to the scary parts of us we don't want to admit are within us.

        No way, I'm way too smart to that, you see I'm rational... or at least a good mark.

        There was an excellent article about this in the FT recently.

        https://www.ft.com/content/13f... [ft.com]

        Paywalled sorry (IMO good journalism costs money, and I personally think it's worth supporting. Also the FT hardly ever gets torn a new one in Private Eye, which is a UK rag on curr

  • by humankind ( 704050 ) on Saturday January 30, 2021 @08:02PM (#61010602) Journal

    I'm curious where these fucking idiots were when it turned out Obama didn't take everybody's guns and make America subject to Sharia law?

    • by Camel Pilot ( 78781 ) on Saturday January 30, 2021 @08:14PM (#61010634) Homepage Journal

      Oh I remember people and their Jade Helm [wikipedia.org] conspiracy. Back in the day, all the alt-righties were just sure that Obama was going to invoke martial law and assume complete dictatorship control. Even a family member told me that FEMA was building large fenced impound areas with (as he touches my shoulder for emphasis) the barbwire on the top facing inwards! Just four years later a cult leader comes along and did try a coup d'ate and they were praying/hoping for martial law. Go figure. It is nutz.

      • Well... I'd rather a bunch of crazy people keep an eye out for these things and br wrong than everyone assume "it can't happen here!!" and be wrong. The cost in the first place is pretty low. In the latter we're all fucked.

        I hadn't heard much about Q before the election but dug in deep in maybe mid November and tracked back a bunch of Twitter theories to their origin videos on YouTube and the websites those guys hosted elsewhere linked to from the videoes.

        What did I learn?

        1) there are tunnels dug by Elon

        • by Frank Burly ( 4247955 ) on Saturday January 30, 2021 @09:27PM (#61010816)

          I'd rather a bunch of crazy people keep an eye out for these things and br wrong than everyone assume "it can't happen here!!" and be wrong.

          The problem is that the crazy people who were afraid Obama would seize the government were cheering and helping Trump as he attempted exactly that. There is a fascist movement in the Republican party, and it is powerful enough that few elected Republicans dare to condemn even the most batshit insanity. https://www.msn.com/en-us/news... [msn.com]

          • by rsilvergun ( 571051 ) on Saturday January 30, 2021 @11:16PM (#61011088)
            we elected a black president. Some were afraid of losing their position and special privileges, but a lot were expecting some kind of retribution because, well, if they were in his position that's what they would do.

            To make matters worse Fox News and other right wing media spent 8 years telling them that retribution was coming any day now. It whipped a lot of them into a frenzy. Then Trump and company spent 4 years feeding that frenzy until it blew up on Jan 6th.
      • It boggles the mind.

    • Some people I think just parrot lines. My mom does this. She doesn't really have the sort of thinking where she could just debate someone and win, but she's good at repeating lines she hear from political spammy newsletters. Today it was a complaint about church not reopening for a couple more weeks because of "socialist rules", in the past it was "why are you so opposed to marriage" if i don't seem anti-gay enough for her, and so forth. And when she says this they sound like she's reading from a script

    • Biden campaigned on applying the NFA to all semiautomatic weapons. He doesn't have statutory authority to do so, but he said it and did some ads with Beto "hell yes we're going to take your AR15" O'Rourke during the campaign.

      Obama wanted to push gun control after Sandy Hook and the Democrat-aligned media keep fawning over Australian, British, Canadian, and Nee Zealand gun confiscation.

      You may doubt that such a policy would ever pass in the US (I'd agree at the federal level, but I also live in a state that

  • by Dasher42 ( 514179 ) on Saturday January 30, 2021 @08:07PM (#61010622)

    Cults aren't just Jim Jones and grifter gurus. They are a composite of things that can all be present in varying degrees, and all of them are toxic even in low-dose.

    If it tries to force people to skip a blood transfusion that could save their lives, it's a cult.
    If it demands that people believe only the "news" that comes from its insiders, and cites itself for evidence, it's a cult.
    If it uses jargon words that mean one thing to the person off the street, but slow-walks people into an alternate meaning, it's a cult.
    If it pulls out the stops to attack former insiders who dare to leave, and threaten their standing or safety, it's a cult.

    But all of those things can happen in more subtle levels than drinking the poison kool-aid. Anyone who's gotten out of extreme fundamentalist religions or militia movements or whatever can tell you that.

    Q-Anon was just a rehash of stuff that's been around for decades, and as someone formerly raised in cultish Pentecostalism who got tons of retribution when I left, I do feel for those waking up and realizing they've been used by a rebranded fascist cult that tried to recruit them for another Kristallnacht.

    I'm glad we're seeing the signs that this is starting to end.

    Get these folks each a copy of Carl Sagan's "The Demon-Haunted World". They don't need handed-down instructions from another authority. They need that famous baloney detection kit. They need walk-through of what the process of discovering truth looks like.

    • The latest is that Trump will be sworn in as 19th president on March 4th using a legal tactic called Pro Warranto. They plan to adopt strategy from Sovereign Citizen movement. This may not be over.
    • You described a lot of the major stupid cult ideas, but you left out the general signs. A lot of major cults start off claiming they are the good guys and someone else is the cult (i.e. blaming the Jews, Antifa, Democrats, gays, Uighars, Muslims, Christians, etc.) So it ends up being who is the cult - us or them? One of the hall marks is that you claim the bad guys are SECRETLY a cult. Does happen, but rarely, so you need to double check by asking theses questions:

      1) If it does not ask "Is there n

      • You're exactly right. If, hypothetically, you're demonizing people, making cartoon caricatures of them, you can't understand or predict them. If they actually are up to something that's hurting society, you're not going to know how to fight them effectively. There are truly insane psychopaths in the world, at least 19 times out of 20, and yes things do happen that would blow most people's minds, but those are corner cases.

        One should try to imagine a rational actor in another life, another social in-group

    • A good book also would be Jame's Randi's Flim-Flam.

  • There must be a homeopathic remedy offered by the Illuminati which can help them.
  • Can QAnon explain why they are saying you can't impeach a president after he leaves office .. this while they previously state a president can pardon himself?

    Doesn't that mean a president can assault (or worse) a bunch of people on January 20th morning and immediately pardon himself and get away with that? It seems like a loophole the founders would not have wanted, since they didn't want anyone above the law.

    • by Boronx ( 228853 )

      It's been well understood that presidents can be impeached after leaving office. We don't have to take this argument any more seriously than Bill Barr's confusion about whether it was legal for people to vote twice, after Donnie recommended that they do so.

      In any case, Republicans previously voted to acquit because they wanted to let voters decide, but Donnie still refuses to acknowledge the voter's decision, so in this case it's particularly appropriate to continue with the impeachment.

  • Truth? (Score:5, Insightful)

    by jimbrooking ( 1909170 ) on Saturday January 30, 2021 @08:43PM (#61010708)
    Social networking, used by the former Agent Orange in chief and his adherents, have destroyed the concept of objective truth. Remember Carl Rove boasting that truth is whatever he says? And J Goebels in the 1930s, when asked how he got Hitler elected chancellor, said he never could have done it without radio. Walter Cronkite, Ed Murrow, Dan Rather: we relied on and accepted their broadcasts to bring truth to us. And remember "science"? Now we have Faceook, Twitter "news feeds" of whatever nonsense comes into the head of anyone with access to an internet connection. Or anyone who wishes us harm.
  • Fuck them. (Score:5, Insightful)

    by The Evil Atheist ( 2484676 ) on Saturday January 30, 2021 @08:48PM (#61010718)
    I used to believe in all sorts of stuff. Mostly the ancient aliens stuff and a generous helping of quantum woo, not to mention the belief that the free market (or, at the same time, violent revolution) will magically fix everything. It's funny how they all work together if you believe there are magical external forces at work. I even considered myself atheist during all that time, yet was believing in all that mysterious shit. I'm an Evil Atheist now because I'm hardline about science and applying scientific thinking to everyday things.

    You don't get to go back to normal. You should be greatly ashamed of your gullibility and you should keep reminding yourself that you were easily led, despite thinking you were intelligent and free thinker and only you knows what's really going on. That goes for all you alt-right and right wing nerds on Slashdot. You're not above everybody else just because you think you're more intelligent. You're not more intelligent - you're just a nerd. You believe all sorts of ideological crap from which you interpret the world. You don't know what's really going on anymore than anyone else.

    It's your own responsibility to develop a working internal bullshit detector, and it's your own responsibility to point that detector at yourself from time to time.
    • All true. But why limit your comments to the right? Do you believe the left also need bullshit detectors? Or is everything the left believes true without examination and question?

      • Western countries have been swinging heavily to the right, as can be seen by the elections of far-right bullshitters. At his moment in history, it is the right and alt-right that are the problem. Even anti-vaxx, which started out as lefty nonsense but was not taken seriously by the mainstream left, has found a home in the right and alt-right where it is way more influential than it has ever been. Go to flat earth conventions and UFO conventions and you'd find people who thought Trump was going to expose the
        • Re: (Score:2, Insightful)

          by gizmo2199 ( 458329 )

          There's plenty of what I would call "faith-based" bullshit on the left as well.

          At the moment it's an indulgence in so-called anti-racism, "equity" and "systemic" racism. These are things that in order to believe them, you have to take them on faith (rather than facts).

          For you to believe that systemic racism is a real ongoing problem you have to essentially engage in magical thinking--that there is some sort of nation-wide conspiracy by white people to put black-people in jail, deny them housing, and educati

          • Re: Fuck them. (Score:4, Insightful)

            by lactose99 ( 71132 ) on Sunday January 31, 2021 @02:32AM (#61011426)

            For you to believe that systemic racism is a real ongoing problem you have to essentially engage in magical thinking--that there is some sort of nation-wide conspiracy by white people to put black-people in jail, deny them housing, and educational opportunities.

            That's ACTUAL racism, not systemic. Systemic racism is seeing where it has been built into the system, that people unaffected don't think about because it has always been there and "that's just how things have always been and everything's fine."

          • laws have been passed, and social attitudes about racism has shifted.

            That's hilarious that you believe that delusion while lecturing others about magical thinking.

      • Re: Fuck them. (Score:5, Insightful)

        by Darinbob ( 1142669 ) on Saturday January 30, 2021 @11:39PM (#61011128)

        I think most people believe what their authorities tell them. Either their religious leaders, their financial advisors, their boss at work, and so forth. The thing is, sometimes you get the authorities kind of mixed up. So some will accept what their religious and political leaders tell them and won't question it or research it.

        Generally the left is kooky as hell when it comes to political beliefs. Same as the right. The difference perhaps is when things aren't political beliefs. Climate change is not political, and so what the scientists seem to generally accept is their authority on the left; but on the right they have twisted this to be a political issue and so they rely upon what their political leaders tell them.

        But most of the difference between the classical left and the classical right is that they both agree what the problems are but they disagree on the best way to solve those problems. Today it has changed so that it's no longer a friendly competition of ideas, instead people are literally phrasing a mere political disagreement as a fight between good and evil (seriously, this meme came up just today on facebook, "do you want your children growing up in a world controlled by evil people?").

      • by kqs ( 1038910 )

        Both sides (well, ALL sides) need bullshit detectors. And as soon as left-wing elected officals start talking about baby-eating lizard-man pedophiles, we'll post slashdot stories about them too. But until then we'll focus on detecting the current Crazy.

    • In high school, Uri Geller was at the height of his fame and craziness. I was telling a friend how it's just a magic trick, and that I could bend car keys in a similar way using a magic trick. She asked me to demonstrate. So I borrowed her keys, told her it was just a trick, then "bent" the keys. I totally flubbed the trick though, I hadn't practiced, it was the first time I ever attempted it. But... the key was bent and she didn't see me do it. Her first words were "are you sure you're aren't psychic

  • Idiots that join the stupid club have only one person to blame,

    the one they see in the mirror.

    • by gweihir ( 88907 )

      Idiots that join the stupid club have only one person to blame,

      the one they see in the mirror.

      Ah, so it _is_ somebody else responsible! They lucked out.

  • "start teaching our kids to ask: Where is this information coming from? Can I trust it?" sounds good but then

    "who has a master's degree, had looked down on Scientologists as people who believed crazy things. But there she was..."

    CNN reporter Anderson Cooper recently interviewed

    What is their take on Trust?
  • The shame comes when you reject the truth in the face of indisputable evidence.
  • They are of above average IQ, but seem drawn to movements that are anti-establishment, even if often of conflicting ideologies. They're needy opportunistic followers, and as such can be insanely gullible. If they are a member of a rational, sensible movement, it's because it feeds their need to be superior in knowledge and judgment over everyone outside of the movement, and will just as easily bounce back and forth between the rational and sensible that exist outside of them, and the irrational and most foo

  • Sorry, I am going to need a primer on what is the QAnon conspiracy. I've heard a lot of people dismiss it. I haven't heard anyone touting it or even talking about how to get hold of its materials. So what is this thing we are all supposed to not believe?
  • Sounds exactly like Facebook, only that one lacking the 'death cult' aspect.

    Unfortunately, there is no way to directly kill an account other than maybe spamming "stop the steal" or something, but that is no surefire way to do it, and most FB addicts wouldn't think to do something like this anyway.

    FB addiction is real, and destructive, and removing the ability to kill an account right away, instead they put you on a waiting period where one wrong move on a site only linked to FB can reset that clock, is down

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